20 TIPS FOR GOOD SLEEP

Do you struggle to fall asleep or stay asleep? For me, a good nights sleep has been difficult and inconsistent for years. I have went to bed feeling stressed and anxious. Repeatedly I have woken up with nightmares, woken with my teeth hurting from clenching throughout the night, or woken up by my kids or dogs for various reasons. I frequently toss and turn and have difficulty falling back to sleep when woken, especially when I know that I need to wake by a certain time. Creating this challenge for myself has been really important to my happiness. If it works for me, it can work for you! Give my tips a try and hopefully you can also experience a good night’s sleep.

BENEFITS:

Adequate sleep supports the following body functions:

  • Heart and circulatory system:
    People who don’t sleep enough or have consistent sleep interruptions may have a higher risk of heart disease, high blood pressure, obesity, or stroke. 
  • Metabolism: Not getting enough quality sleep may lead to insulin resistance, increased eating, and decreased physical activity, all of which contribute to obesity, which carries its own health risks.
  • Immune systems: A particular type of immune cell works harder when you sleep. That’s why those who don’t get enough sleep may get sick more often.
  • Cognition: Sleep aids in learning and forming long-term memories. If you don’t sleep well or enough, you’ll likely have problems focusing and thinking clearly. This could also lead to poor memory when you’re older.

SLEEP WELL TIPS:

1) Screen time increases both dopamine and serotonin, keeping the brain awake and wanting more. Screen time sets off a pleasure/reward cycle that can have a negative impact on your sleep. Research has shown that blue light suppresses the natural production of melatonin and creates fragmented sleep, or sleep interruptions which reduces the ability to fall asleep. Try to end screen time at least 2 hours before bed. If this makes you too anxious, try 15 minute increments at a time. If you absolutely need to use a device, apply a blue light filter. Do not sleep with your phone or even near your phone. Try leaving your phone in a nearby room, and silence it to avoid being woken up by notifications. If it’s near you, you’re more likely to keep looking at it.

2) Dim the lights a couple of hours before bed. Our bodies produce a sleep regulating hormone (melatonin) in response to darkness. So start the wind down process early. 

3) Don’t consume sugar or caffeine, past 5 p.m. Your mind will be too energized for sleep. For dinner eat carbohydrates that increase tryptophan, which boosts serotonin which improves sleep. Try to plan dinners to include sweet potatoes, quinoa, or turkey. Turkey and sweet potatoes together are a great combination. Melatonin rich foods include ginger root, asparagus, and tomatoes.

4) No alcohol before bed. This can cause poor quality sleep. 

5) Temperature. Get in your comfy clothes around 7 p.m. or 1-2 hours before bed. Encourage light clothing to prevent night sweats, which could result in poor sleep. Research has showed that the ideal temperature for good sleep is 66-68F. 

6) Designate time to read a book, meditate, or wind down with yoga. I like to listen to Headspace or nature sounds such as rain, beach waves, or a crackling fireplace. Find your relaxing sound. Practice mindfulness and enjoy simply being in the comfort of your home. 

7) Find what bedding brings you joy and comfort, and make sure you have a comfortable bed or mattress topper that works for you. 

8) If you have a favorite late night show or movie, record it to watch later. Saving it for later practices patience, and you will benefit by being able to skip through the previews which allows more time for other things. 

9) While lying in bed wind down your mind with positive thoughts. Think through your day, think about what went right, what you could have done better, and why tomorrow will be a great day for you. Fight and redirect the negative thoughts. You are human so the thoughts are normal whether good or bad, just don’t attach yourself to the negative thoughts. You can do it. Practice and repeat. It will get easier. 

10) If you are successful in going to sleep early, this will allow waking up earlier to be way easier. 7-9 hours is recommended. We are all different,  you may feel refreshed with 7 hours or 9 hours. Find what works for you. Starting your wind down routine 9 hours before your goal wake up time is benefical. Even if you’re not sleeping, relaxing is almost as good as sleeping, it may give you some of the benefits of meditation. If you don’t sleep well you won’t think well, which will likely cause you to not accomplish what you wanted and overall result in a bad day. Be mindful and continue to create good habits and accept that everyday won’t go as planned, just do your best.

11) Diffuse: Lavender relaxes, calms, and reduces anxiety. Use an organic lavender oil with good harvesting practices to diffuse. I use the EWG app to verify products. Harvesting your own lavender may also be an option (I hope to do this myself). 

12) Don’t eat 2 hours before bed. If you do feel the need to eat something, try more high carb or high melatonin rich foods that are easy on your stomach and not so heavy like bananas, carrots, nuts like walnuts, or cherries. Late night snacking can stir up acid reflux, so avoid citrus foods.

13) Journal or write. No devices. If you’re like me, you might get to a point where you have all these ideas and things to write. Bookmark them and continue tomorrow. Keep a gratitude journal, writing down reminders of what you’re grateful for is a great way to stay positive and reflect on your blessings. Focus less on what you don’t have and more on what you do have.

14) Be consistent. A routine schedule will help with proper sleep.

15) Pamper yourself. Take a mindful bath with lavender oil while listening to relaxing sounds. Do your nails. 

16) While winding down in bed. Think of your happy place. Find peace in your mind to help calm your thoughts.

17) Make mindful time for with your spouse. Discuss what’s on your mind. Be honest. Don’t take anger to sleep. Continue to work on your connection. Maintaining a good relationship helps prevent poor sleep.

18) Enjoy a cup of caffeine free herbal tea to relax. I enjoy Chamomile with lemon. Find your happy spot to get cozy.

19) Limit strenuous exercise to early in the day. Exercise wakes up your mind and body.

20) If you can’t sleep and you find yourself tossing and turning, get up. Staying in bed can associate your bed with stress instead of a relaxing comfortable place you love. Find yourself something boring to do, such as folding laundry, or sit down with a dim light and read a book or write in your journal, or try some deep breathing exercises or meditation. Doing these things should make you sleepy and not excite your brain. Soon you should be ready to get back in bed and try again.

– If you have kids, see my 9 SLEEP WELL TIPS FOR KIDS blog post. 

Example routine:

4-5:00p When I get home from work I will start my wind down routine, diffusing lavender. If you have kids or a spouse, spend mindful time with them.

5-6:00p-Prep and eat dinner.  Cleanup after so I don’t have to do it later. Stacking up things to do such as chores will cause more stress and less sleep. Get some help. Cook together, eat together,  clean up together if you don’t live alone. 

-6-6:30p Relax with a well deserved bath devoted to me. Be mindful. Dim the lights.

-6:30-9:00p Light snack.  Read, yoga, or meditate. Drink tea. Stay away from screens. If not, set a reasonable end time of at least 2 hours before bedtime. 

-9-930 Relax in bed without your phone. Wind down and fall asleep.

*If you are successful in going to sleep early, this will allow waking up earlier to be way easier. If you don’t sleep well you won’t think well, which will likely cause you to not accomplish what you wanted and overall result in a bad day. Also of great importance, when you sleep your body performs work that supports healthy brain function and physical health. Be mindful and continue to create good habits and accept that everyday won’t go as planned, just do your best.

Reward:

Once you succeed, treat yourself for all the hard work you did. Be proud of yourself for wanting to create good habits for yourself. 

 

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